In our life, we meet many people in many ways. And at least once in a lifetime, we find someone special. And when you feel a deep attraction and affection without any intention you are falling in love. This is the most beautiful feeling in the world. But here is a problem. You are confused a little if your love is true or not. Does he or she loves you truly or not? Sometimes it seems that he or she loves you a lot but sometimes it feels different. The question is how to know if your love is real and true?. You are going to make some big decisions and you must sure about your love. Here are some points and signs to know if your love is real and true.
1. Real love makes you feel comfortable every time:
The first sign to know about true is looking you that what you feel when you be with him/her. Ask do you feel comfortable? A true and real always makes feel comfortable. It doesn’t matter where you are. If you walking on the street or having dinner in a restaurant or with friends. Your true will always make you feel comfortable.
2. Real love never asks you to sacrifice what you love:
The most important thing if your love is true he or she will never ask you to sacrifice your habits. Like if you love shopping he/she will never ask to stop you. If you love dogs he/she will always keep a dog for you. And even if he/she hates the dog, will let you keep it at home and will never ask you to leave it.
3. Real love always communicates in a healthy way:
No game playing, no blaming, no accusing are signs of true love. If your partner does this to you then you are lucky. You have found your true love. Your true love always takes your opinion and listens to your thoughts. Even though his/her thinking can be different but your thoughts and opinions will always matter. If you are not getting this from your partner then think again about your relationship.
4. Real love does not hurt:
There can be some misunderstandings and upsets between you but your true will never hurt you intentionally. If such things happen your partner will work onto it. He/she will say you sorry and admit mistakes. Love is a kind of two-wheeler vehicle and both of the wheels will have to work together. No arrogance, no attitudes will work here. If your partner always hurts you and never admit it then your love may not be true.
5. Real love expresses love with you always:
Your partner loves you but how many times he/she say ‘i love you’? You have to think about it. If your love is true he/she will express his/her love every day. The way of expression can be different. he/she can give a sweet kiss and say ‘i love you’. He/she can buy a flower to you or sing a song for you. But real love expresses love with you every day. And never gets bored to express love to you.
6. Real love does the little thing for you:
Apart from expressing love, a true will always do some little things for you. In a way to care about you or in a way to make you feel good, he/she will do some little things that matter. You enter the house tired your partner comes and hugs you sweetly or you are feeling cold at the night your partner give you a sheet or you working in the kitchen your partner comes and helps you. These are some little things which show how much somebody cares about you or how much somebody loves you.
7. Real love sacrifices for you:
True love is always ready to sacrifice for you. Everything which can get you far away from him or her, he/she will sacrifice that for you because he/she does not want to lose you and no other things are important that you. Sacrifices can be little or small it shows the same amount of love every time. It doesn’t need to give up something big. You can sacrifice your smoking habits for her. And you can sacrifice your shopping habits for him and that matters.
8. Real love trusts you:
If your love is real and true he or she will trust you. He or she will believe in you. Every time when does any doubts or misunderstanding come he or she will never give up trust on you. If someone loves you truly one will never blame you for any misunderstandings or doubts. What you say will always important for your partner if it is a true love.
9. Real love understands you every time:
Like a best friend, a true or real love will always understand you and If someone loves you one will get you always. Your feelings, your thoughts and your habits will not be strange for your partner. He or she will easily get you all the time. Every time when you will face difficulties and confusion he or she will listen to you and help you to get out of it.
10. Real love shares things with you:
Remember in our childhood we shared our lunch only to our best friends because we trust them. The same things happen with our love. If somebody loves you one will share you one’s things and stuff. He/she will share his/her secrets, office times, people’s talking and other things. Even somebody shares their toothbrush with each other. Sharing things means sharing the love and if your partner loves you he/she will share you most of the things.
BY: Shadab Ahmad Khan